From walking down the aisle to asking for a divorce and having to file, the highs and lows of Big Apple love aren’t cheap.  New York, where a dream wedding costs over $53,000, is the second-most expensive state for divorce, running soured sweethearts more than $27,000 to officially part ways, according to nightmarish new data.  “The cost of divorce can be spread into various parts, [including court] fees, legal representation, and, where applicable, settlements and alimony,” study…